Monday 6 August 2018

LELAKI ZAMAN SEKARANG

Assalamualaikum

Ni post kedua pada hari ni.

Well, sis memang serius nak cari jodoh ni, so, sis terfikir,

"WHY NOT REGISTER LAMAN CAR JODOH, BAITULMUSLIM?"

So, sis registerlah.

Lepas register, sis godek-godek Baitulmuslim tu, tengok calon-calon..

Guess what?

Sis jumpa muka sis familiar kat situ.. dia mengaku bujang ok.

Padahal dah kahwin.

Pastu sis fikir, maybe ni zaman sebelum kawen kot.

Tgk time aktif dia..

"2 HARI YANG LALU"

Maknanya apa tu adik kakak sume?? hurrmmmm.. malas nak tulis, faham-faham la ye..

Omaigod!!

Lelaki ni punya muka baik.. tapi... memang xsangka, dalam diam.. ada cubaan gak.. hurmm..

So, sis terus xnak teruskan Baitulmuslim, macam petanda xelok ja...

Ok, cane la nak cari lelaki yang baik law cam ni gayanya...

Ok, kalau ada terbaca ni dan rasa korang baik, jujur dan serius nak kawen, pendapatan stabil, bole PM FB sis ye... mungkin anda jodoh sis.. :)

Bye, assalamualaikum...

WECHAT DAN AKU

Assalamualaikum

Hari ni nak menulis berkenaan media sosial: WECHAT


Well, wechat ni bukan my favorite pun dan mmg xsuke, especially when I heard bad stories pasal budak-budak main wechat ni kan.

But, sebab kerja, one of my officemate xpakai whatsapp.. (Well, mesti korang fikir, hidup zaman bila ni xpakai whatsapp, but believe me.. dia memang xpakai whatsapp). So, nak ke xnak, sis sebagai bos dia, kena jugak download wechat ni untuk memudahkan komunikasi. We even have Group Wechat kot... So, memang terang-terang la sis ada account wechat (What a loser)

 So, setelah donload, sis cuma buka utk group purpose je. Tak ade nak try discover pun apa kan.

Tapi, satu hari, sis nak explore Wechat, apa yang function menarik wechat ni. So, sis explore la.. terjumpa satu function ni..

"MESSAGE IN BOTTLE"

Sis macam.., apa benda ni? So, sis try.. sis tulis simple je..

"GOOD NIGHT" dan sis throw dalam laut.. (Budak wechat faham la kot)

The next day.. guess what.. belambak sis terima greetings from guys which I believe many of them are married, have kids and 30 and above...

Sis macam kejadah la dorang ni,..

Ada few types of greeting:

  1. Hi
  2. Hai
  3. I
  4. Assalamualaikum
  5. Hai Comey
  6. Hi beautiful
  7. etc
Of course sangat annoying!

Dan ada jugak yang berunsurkan lucah.. seriously, ramai yang berunsurkan lucah., nak cari kepuasan kat luar la tu.. ada jugak yang terang-terang letak gambar berunsurkan lucah.

So, sis try layan 4-5 orang yang greets sis.. of course sis xlayan yang lucah tu.. sebab mmg terang-terang kemahuan dia kan.. so, sis layan orang yang konon baik, yang bagi salam tu..

Pastu, sis pretend sis innocent and blurr..

Guess what, dorang ni pun bukan baik sangat.. saja nak cari mangsa.. ajak jumpa malam la.. pastu bila makin melayan, makin keluar la niat buruk tu. Niat nak ambik kesempatan kat perempuan. Mula tanya pelik-pelik.. teruk sungguh..

So, no wonder la budak zaman sekarang pangai mcam haram.. yang pompuan senang-senang bagi orang sondol, percaya sgt kate laki... sis yang tua ni pun almost deceived, nikan pulak bebudak.. 

Patutla budak-budak suka wechat.. Dorang chatting ngan lelaki dewasa, yang mampu menabur kata-kata manis, yang bekerja, bila jumpa, laki tu bole je beli something.. eleh takat budak apa la sgt kan.. Budak perempuan, of course akan rasa special, dan percaya.. so, no wonder la masalah sosial makin teruk sekarang ni.. sume angkara wechat.

So, my advice, to parents, jgn dok bagi anak-anak main wechat. Kepada lelaki hidung belang yang main wechat, dahla main wechat.. jgn tipu korang ni bagus sgt.. padahal niat tu nak makan luar.. anak bini kat umah korang xpeduli... 

So, tu je..

Assalamualaikum.

Wednesday 1 August 2018

PENGAKUAN HAMPIR DITIPU

Assalamualaikum,

Hari ni nak cerita my experience dengan this man.

Ya Allah, I malu nak cerita kebodohan sendiri. Tp, for those yang terbaca, please take this as a good lesson.

I know this one guy and suddenly he asking me if I nak a serious relationship. Well, of course I nak kan, umur 28 dah.. I nak kawen, have family, ada anak.. macam kawan-kawan I. Then, he said, yes, he is serious, and I am so opened to accept him dengan harapan dia ikhlas dengan I.

So, we get to know each other and met. Seriously, I am so sincere towards him. I really wish It was him, my Mr.Right. My jodoh. My future husband and will become my husband, a father to our kids. Yes, I am 28. Apa lagi yang I nak fikir if ada seorang lelaki serious about I? I wan to build a family. Susah senang bersama. I really want to.

But, I always doubt him even he bought something what I want. Even he keep mention he is serious about me. I always doubt him.

He is a government servant. He working in uniform department (I dont want to mention), said he is 29 (2018). Used to engaged and be single since 2014. I am ok with that.

Then, my doubt becomes bigger when he ask me to help him running the his business. He ask me to make a loan RM40K. That was a big amount, with my financial crisis.. I can't afford to pay. So, he insisted, he'll pay for me. So, I xperlu kacau gaji I. I xpercaya. But he keep trying to convince me, that, this is a started since we would like to have our life together. Nak kawen kan.. So, without discuss with my family, I made my mind. I agree.

But, since I agree, I xboleh tenang. It feels something wrong. So, start ask my friend to help me investigate about him. My friend ada knl orang yang kerja sama dgn badan uniform laki ni. I minta tolong risik. At the same time, I try to find some information about him. Of course, I xjumpa apa-apa. I was so desperate to get the information. I takut I kene tipu.

So, actually, I dah ke bank, isi borang loan, push the bank officer to make it fast.

But, because of uneasy feeling, I xtaw nak ngadu kt sape. So, again, I go back to our Creator. I solat Istikarah.

I doa:

" Ya Allah, jika si polan-polan adalah jodohku, kau dekatkan hati kami, satukanlah kami, panjangkan jodoh kami, satukan kami hingga ke jinjang pelamin. Tetapi Ya Allah, jika dia berniat buruk ke atasku, kau tunjukkanlah kuasamu, berikan petunjukmu. Lindungilah aku daripada sebarang musibah dan orang berniat jahat. Aku memohon perlindungan dan pertolonganmu, aamin."

Guess what, Allah tu Maha Mendengar, Maha Pengasih dan Maha Mengetahui.

Hari ni, 1 Ogos 2018, he caught cheated on me.

Well, first, I found his IC number. Before, he give the his IC number, 89XXXX-XX-XXXX. But, what I found was 84XXXX-XX-XXXX. Guess what, he is not 29 in 2018, but 34. I boleh terima if he is 34, why perlu tipu I cakap 29? I terkejut. My doubt increase more.

Then, I cerita dekat my friend, and my friend got information. This guy actually already married twice and have kids.

So, now, I know, Allah dah jawab doa I.

So, immediately I called bank officer, cancel the loan. I was saved by my Creator, Allah SWT.

Boleh bayang x, I kene tanggung hutang RM40K for nothing if Allah xjaga I? I bersyukur sgt.

To that man, if u read this, u know who u are. Please jgn bodohkan perempuan macam u bodohkan I. Tp, ye lah I yang bodoh percaya U sbb I igt U ikhlas dengan I. I am so stupid. I ikhlas dengan u. I betul-betul nak our relationship berjaya, tapi.. u lelaki yang jahat. U tipu I, and  want to use me for your own good.

But, gladly, I dipelihara oleh Allah SWT dari lelaki macam u.

So, girls out there, please be careful. I senang je lps ni, I nak Mama I carikan jodoh. I dah xnak knl lelaki. Lelaki are so scary. Susah nak cari yang baik dan betul-betul ikhlas.

Ok, tu je.

Assalamualaikum.